It seems that almost all the time when I ask people how they are, they tell me they are so busy. Crazy busy.
But are we?
And if we are, are we too busy for love?
Today, I break down the whole busy trap that a lot of us are living in and how to figure out if we are too, or are dating people, too busy for love.
I love me some Parks and Rec and more than Leslie, Ben, Andy or Tom...I love me some Ron Swanson.
And one of my favorite love lessons comes from a line in the final season that I decided to do a whole episode around.
Recently in the OM Class, this awesome quote was brought up about compatibility and I wanted to break it down today on the podcast.
And if they don't, what do we do instead?
Well I think you know that I am breaking that shit down for you today. Listen up!
Oh shit. I am bringing it today.
There is a big pile of bullshit that I calling out today. The idea that you haven't met the right one yet...because you probably have.
I know...ouch. Come on over and let me give you a hug because believing that myth is NOT helping you. But I break down a new mindset today that will!
And don't forget that the new Owner's Manual Class is starting on February 19th and you get it free if you sign-up to join me in Mexico.
In my research for the new Owner's Manual, I found this killer info about the stages of relationships and was not surprised to find out that most of us never get past stage one or two.
Listen up as I share this totally mind-blowing info and find out where you are getting stuck.
I mean really.
I can rant day after day about boundaries, vulnerability, communication, etc...but all of it means shit if we don't actually understand what love truly is.
I am breaking down some new theories on love, so get ready to blow your mind wide open.
Man, is this week super special. I recently had a good session with a brand new client and she offered for me to share it with all of you!
So you are going to get a private peek into what a session and "doing the work" really looks like.
During the excerpt we talk about:
How love is only a single emotion
Why falling in love isn't real
How striving to be perfect keeps you further away from love
and so much more.
The New LOAS podcast is here!
Today's guest, Andrea Owen, is talking about her new book "How to Stop Feeling Like Shit" and how to stop hiding out from love.
Oh I am on a roll today!
I have a question for you. Are you making choices that will actually get you love AND a relationship?
The short answer is probably not. Most ladies aren't.
Listen up today as I share stories about choices and how you can choose to be in a relationship as well as love.
So over the last few podcasts I have been talking about ways that we are unavailable and probably don't even know it.
I see it all of the time. A client will come to me telling me all she wants in the world is love and a relationship. She has been waiting forever!
And that might be true.
But when she meets someone or starts to date someone new she:
* bends over backwards
* is nervous to speak up for herself
* doesn't ask for what she needs to feel good in the relationships
*loses herself in the relationship
Or maybe never even gets close to do those things!
And without even knowing it...she is totally emotionally unavailable. Don't worry, I got you.
Listen in today to the podcast as I share with you how to start getting more available.
And check out my new one day event in Chicago called CONNECT!
I've got a story from a client this week...that was pissed off.
Because she got ghosted...again.
But here is the deal...she wasn't.
Listen up as I tell her story and make sure you prevent this from happening.
If I were to ask you if you are emotionally available, what would you say?
Most women I work with yell from the rooftops how available they are. They think they could not be more available...they are dying to be in a relationship.
But if there is something that I have learned in my 9+ years of doing this it is that some many women I work with "think" they are emotionally available and just plain aren't.
Today on the podcast, I am breaking it down. Listen up!
I know I have, have you?
When you meet someone and it just feels so, so right. You can't help but just say "fuck it! Let's do this!" Right?
I have thoughts and stories and even some theories to share about whether or not you should just follow your heart...or not.
This week, I get personal again.
I tie up the story about my Dad's passing and what it has to do with my relationship.
What I learned and how the stories about what your relationship is "supposed to" be like it total bullshit.
Well some are. But many are not.
However there may be a whole other piece at play that you are not even thinking about and today I break that down for you.
Ready for one part honest stories +one part really smart stuff + one part ridiculous talk about 90s fashion?
Today, I have two of my favorite people on earth on my podcast. Amy Smith from thejoyjunkie.com and Andrea Owen from yourkickasslife.com.
We got together for this awesome interview to talk about our own struggles, share some funny stories and talk all things 90s. We also talk about the amazing retreat we having coming up in October that you don't want to miss! Check it out at tripletconference.com
I also mentioned that one of my favorite (and single) guys might be joining us at the conference for a little bit. Have you met my friend Rob Mack? He is pretty awesome.
He also looks like this..yeah that sucks.
Listen up, enjoy the ride and join me in California in October!
What do you think?
You know I have thoughts on it...
Listen up as I break down my thoughts about men, love, dating, relationships...all of it!
And join the challenge that starts on July 24th at loas.co/5
It gets confusing nowadays...
You look around at everyone you know and you might be asking yourself...do I even want a relationship? No one who is in one seems that happy...
I get it.
Today I am going to talk about why you DO want a relationship and how to get there.
This is the worst.
Seriously. It is so tough when the well-meaning family, friends, co-workers and even dates ask this question! Let alone when they love to weigh in on what you should do!
Today we are going to talk about mindsets and scripts about how to handle this and not lose your shit.
I have a guest on the podcast this week and it is pretty much my favorite guest ever...my boyfriend Danny!!!!
He is on the podcast to talk about the ridiculous night we met, the beginning of our relationship and what we did wrong and right!
It's a good one. Listen up!
I am sharing my guts all over the place this episode.
About how I felt about my birthday this week.
Not so great things that happened in Costa Rica.
All of it.
All for the sake of learning. Listen up!
So this is a tricky one...
They may be funny. Smart. Kind. But if you aren't dating anymore...should you be friends?
It's complicated, right?
Today, I give you some questions and thoughts that you will want to answer before you decide to make the decision if being friends with your ex is a helping or hurting.
I don't know about you, this time of year always starts to get me thinking about camp.
When I was 13, I went to summer camp and it turned out to be the most life changing experience of my childhood.
Listen up today as I tell my experience as well as some ridiculous stories about me:)
And if you are ready to change your life, join me at the TripleTConference.com!