You have probably heard this quote by now and I definitely have some thoughts...
If you want to know the #1 pet peeve in my biz...just listen up.
Cause we are.
And it's bad out there. But I have answers for you! I got you!
Loneliness has been officially declared an epidemic. It's something that not only is affecting our health but also the way we date.
Listen up to my thoughts on what loneliness is and how to change it.
They probably are and you don't even know it!
But we are breaking that down today. I have resurrected an old amazing interview with my friend Rob Mack and you are going to love it!
Laying down some truth today. Listen up.
So this week I am talking about cheating, but not from the moral aspect, but the relationship aspect.
What can we learn from cheating and how do we do better.
'Cause it's the worst.
This week I am talking about ghosting, bread crumbing, zombieing and even the new term mosting.
All of them suck and we need to have a convo on what to do about it.
I can't even.
We are having a come to Jesus moment, so just listen up.
It seems that almost all the time when I ask people how they are, they tell me they are so busy. Crazy busy.
But are we?
And if we are, are we too busy for love?
Today, I break down the whole busy trap that a lot of us are living in and how to figure out if we are too, or are dating people, too busy for love.
I love me some Parks and Rec and more than Leslie, Ben, Andy or Tom...I love me some Ron Swanson.
And one of my favorite love lessons comes from a line in the final season that I decided to do a whole episode around.
Recently in the OM Class, this awesome quote was brought up about compatibility and I wanted to break it down today on the podcast.
And if they don't, what do we do instead?
Well I think you know that I am breaking that shit down for you today. Listen up!
Oh shit. I am bringing it today.
There is a big pile of bullshit that I calling out today. The idea that you haven't met the right one yet...because you probably have.
I know...ouch. Come on over and let me give you a hug because believing that myth is NOT helping you. But I break down a new mindset today that will!
And don't forget that the new Owner's Manual Class is starting on February 19th and you get it free if you sign-up to join me in Mexico.
In my research for the new Owner's Manual, I found this killer info about the stages of relationships and was not surprised to find out that most of us never get past stage one or two.
Listen up as I share this totally mind-blowing info and find out where you are getting stuck.
I mean really.
I can rant day after day about boundaries, vulnerability, communication, etc...but all of it means shit if we don't actually understand what love truly is.
I am breaking down some new theories on love, so get ready to blow your mind wide open.
Man, is this week super special. I recently had a good session with a brand new client and she offered for me to share it with all of you!
So you are going to get a private peek into what a session and "doing the work" really looks like.
During the excerpt we talk about:
How love is only a single emotion
Why falling in love isn't real
How striving to be perfect keeps you further away from love
and so much more.
The New LOAS podcast is here!
Today's guest, Andrea Owen, is talking about her new book "How to Stop Feeling Like Shit" and how to stop hiding out from love.
Oh I am on a roll today!
I have a question for you. Are you making choices that will actually get you love AND a relationship?
The short answer is probably not. Most ladies aren't.
Listen up today as I share stories about choices and how you can choose to be in a relationship as well as love.
So over the last few podcasts I have been talking about ways that we are unavailable and probably don't even know it.
I see it all of the time. A client will come to me telling me all she wants in the world is love and a relationship. She has been waiting forever!
And that might be true.
But when she meets someone or starts to date someone new she:
* bends over backwards
* is nervous to speak up for herself
* doesn't ask for what she needs to feel good in the relationships
*loses herself in the relationship
Or maybe never even gets close to do those things!
And without even knowing it...she is totally emotionally unavailable. Don't worry, I got you.
Listen in today to the podcast as I share with you how to start getting more available.
And check out my new one day event in Chicago called CONNECT!
I've got a story from a client this week...that was pissed off.
Because she got ghosted...again.
But here is the deal...she wasn't.
Listen up as I tell her story and make sure you prevent this from happening.
If I were to ask you if you are emotionally available, what would you say?
Most women I work with yell from the rooftops how available they are. They think they could not be more available...they are dying to be in a relationship.
But if there is something that I have learned in my 9+ years of doing this it is that some many women I work with "think" they are emotionally available and just plain aren't.
Today on the podcast, I am breaking it down. Listen up!
I know I have, have you?
When you meet someone and it just feels so, so right. You can't help but just say "fuck it! Let's do this!" Right?
I have thoughts and stories and even some theories to share about whether or not you should just follow your heart...or not.