Sometimes we are pretty darn good at convincing ourselves that our excuses are the real reason we don't have a relationship.
"We just didn't have instant chemistry."
"I am not going to settle!"
Those look like you are taking care of yourself but really....they are fear. Here are my thoughts on it.
Your Adventure for Today:
Journal on these questions.
Do you want love?
Do you want a relationship?
Do you want it more than the fear of rejection?
What are you doing to change it?