I blogged about this a while ago, but it needed to be said. Out loud. To the masses.
Yes, I am being dramatic.
I can't even try to tell you how many times I hear the stories. "We had a couple of dates, I was interested and then I never heard from them again!"
I mean, what?
What about dating nowadays says that you don't need to let someone know you are interested? That letting them hang there, wondering what the heck happened, has become ok?
I am on a mission to change this and I want your help!
Let's pull the crazy train in the station, shall we?
Today's podcast is the importance or changing this and then HOW to do it.
Today's hard core truth: When you are dating, there are going to be freak outs & awkward moments, but we HAVE to remember to be kind to each other.
Your Adventure of the Day: Today, is easy. Just commit to help make the change. Understanding that with this basic kindness comes more love. Then....SPREAD THE WORD! 40 people doing this is a change, but what about 400 or 4000? What would that mean for dating today?
How would everything look if we all just were a little kinder to each other. Need help?
Here is a script for you to follow when that awkward moment happens. Script for letting someone down easy
“I just want to tell you thank you so much for the time we have spent together. I have to be honest that I am not wanting to move this forward and just don’t feel it is what I am looking for right now. I have really loved getting to know you and truly appreciating getting a glimpse into your life. I wish you the best of luck."
No you can fucking do that...
Oh, the heart.
It plays such an important role in love....
It leads you towards love and even breaks a little when it is over. OR DOES IT???
Listen to my latest podcast that lays down some truth bombs about the heart and all of it's wily ways.
Today's hard core truth: We can't always help who we are attracted to, but we DO get to choose if they stay in our life.
Your Adventure of the Day: Journal on these questions and feel free to share your answers below. What bad behavior and excuses are you blaming on the heart? Where are you victimizing yourself so that you can’t move forward towards love?
So you say you want a relationship.
When was the last time you sat down and really asked yourself that question?
It is something I ask every potential client and many of them don’t have the answer. It is just assumed as the next step in so many people’s lives. But if you have no idea what you are looking for how will you know when you have found it?
Today, I am going to break down some thoughts for you on what is going to point you in the healthy direction of a relationship and what is going to lead you to the same crap situation.
Today, I breakdown one thing we are forgetting about love and relationships nowadays and is the most important thing. Let me know if you agree.
Here is the original Psychology Today article.
One day, I woke up and didn’t want to date unavailable men anymore and I had to have a tough moment where I needed to fess up to myself that it was ME choosing them. Again and again.
I was the one buying the ticket to the crazy train and that shit was on me.
Today, I break down what I have learned about why I was dating unavailable men and how I changed it.
Learn from my mistakes, grasshopper.
It comes up a lot with my clients.
And why wouldn’t it? Let’s be honest, there are a lot of shit relationships out there and if you have been dating for awhile there is a pretty good chance you have been in at least one.
You probably have even caught yourself saying "I feel like I can't trust anyone." But today I break down that is not about them, Sugarpants. That shit is all about you.